Too many times we forget to look beyond our small, little world and we limit our search to just our city. However, you never know what you might be missing out there in the world. Learn to explore, look beyond your city. There's a whole world out there, and that special someone you're looking for may out there waiting for you, but until now you haven't been able to find her because you've got a bad case of tunnel vision. But, what about other cities, or maybe even other countries? The thought of this may frighten you. You may say to yourself, "But, I'm not willing to move." Or, "I can't move." That's okay, because the one you find may be able and willing to move.
Here's a great example for you...My life partner use to always search within her city. But, one day, she received an email from someone who lived in another state. The lightbulb clicked on and she thought, "Hey, I could search further away, too." So, she plugged in the magic number of 300 miles from her city, and up pops my profile. She liked what she saw, so she took a risk and emailed me, and I responded back. A couple of weeks later she came to my house for a barbecue, and it was love at first site. Now, I was not able to move because of my kids, however, my partner had no issues with moving, and two months later we were living in the same city. That was almost seven years ago, and we're still together.
If my partner wouldn't have taken the risk and expanded her search, we would have never found each other. So, go ahead and reach out. Expand your search. It never hurts to look and see who is out there in this big world of ours. Besides, even if you don't find a love match, you still might find a friend, and we can all use more friends. Happy searching!! Click here to log into your account.
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